Even to get what they wanted in the end, from all that moaning and nagging. They still carry on moaning, only not as much as before. Just no pleasing some.
It's not the higher than thou position they have that is the problem here. It is the dishonesty in oneself that they have concerns with. Wanting to confront issues with them but hide that face. May as well be a female under a hat with a beard only showing. Be true to oneself, they may surprise everyone.
If it is their high horse that makes them tall, then that horse don't need to do much. Not as if they are pulling a cart, just a seemingly tall presence with a tall hat.
If to go chasing that rabbit down its hole, then least allow it to go running into its hole. Taking their word for it alone is still a chase to have.
Surrounded by comfort like soft petals from flowers all around. Still, upon that bed of roses prefer to place a pillow to lay on. However others to make outcomes, still personally wish to go out in an own way.
In the forest; not that they became a fat cat. They already were a fat cat. Unable to move from their spot. Everything evolved around them. Like a rock in the middle of a path. Instead to remove the rock, twisted the path around it. Leaving that fat cat where it is with everything connected to its presence.
James Ch.1:V.5 " - If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him."